Eating Intentionally: Respect Your Fullness

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You may or may not have noticed, but I derailed a little bit in April. I had some other stuff going on (namely, finishing up my e-book that is now being edited and formatted), so I took a little blogging break, and in the process, totally neglected my Eating Intentionally series.

But I’m back now. So here we go.

I’m just going to totally skip principle #4 (Challenge the Food Police) because it kind of echoes a lot of the aspects of principle #3 (Make Peace with Food), and I feel like continuing in that vein will only result in beating a dead horse.

So onward and forward to Principle #5, which is: Respect Your Fullness. Ah, now, here we get to the good stuff. 

I have read in many different places about how the French people (any actual French people out there who can attest to the accuracy of this analysis, please feel free to pipe up!) eat foods that we would often consider “bad for you” or “fattening”, but they’re typically quite skinny, and fairly healthy as a society. Many people speculate that one reason is because the French eat very slowly, enjoying their food; and they rarely eat seconds.

I think this is where we as Americans struggle the most. Besides the obvious fact that the average American eats a lot of junk, one big cause of our obesity issues is that we simply eat too much. Food looks appetizing, so we indulge. And we take another helping, because wow, that was some good stuff! We go to buffets and have to sample every single option offered.

In short, we are trapped in our abundance. Even people on limited budgets, like myself, have a wide array of enticing desirable food options, and our eyes are bigger than our stomachs.

So the secret is to gain a little discipline: learn to stop eating when the stomach is full. I have seriously been concentrating on this recently. So far, I haven’t seen an improvement on the scale yet, but I have definitely learned that I don’t need to eat as much as I’m accustomed to eating.

How does this work practically? Here are a few tips:

  1. Start with small servings. Chances are, if you put it on your plate, you will eat it. This is why the oft-repeated advice to use a smaller plate is so effective.
  2. Eat slowly. Use all the tricks: put your fork down between bites, take a sip between bites, converse with your fellow diners, etc. (Note: this is where it comes in really hand to have mastered the principle of Honoring Your Hunger. If you are starving when you eat, it will be difficult to eat slowly, and you will inevitably end up over-eating.)
  3. Pay attention to the taste and texture of the food as you eat (more on this in principle #6).
  4. After eating a portion of your food, ask yourself, “Am I starting to feel full? Am I still hungry?”
  5. When you’re finished your meal, note how you feel: stuffed? comfortable? satiated? Learn to identify the feeling of satiated – no longer hungry, but not stuffed or “full” either.

For more information, please read Intuitive Eating, by Evelyn Tribole and Elyse Resche.

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Comments

  1. Ha, after reading this, I took a slice of pizza of my plate and put it back on the pan :-) . This is one area where I really struggle. I have a high metabolism anyway, and between being pregnant and breastfeeding the past few years I’ve gotten stuck in a rut of just inhaling my food because I’m trying to maintain weight and calories and who knows what the toddler is is getting into while I’m wolfing down my food.
    I migh tnot be paying for it yet, but I this unhealthy practice has got to stop or I’m gonna be hit hard when I stop breastfeeding and my metabolism slows down. Thanks for the reminder. I really needed this. I think I’ll go slowly enjoy my pizzamy husband now.

    • Anne says:

      Yeah, my metabolism has slowed down in the past couple years. Ugh. I hate it. My mom tells me I need to start exercising regularly.

  2. Rosita says:

    I am not French, but I lived in France for three years during and after college. I would agree that portion sizes in general are smaller in France. However, I think an even bigger difference is the French don’t snack. You eat three meals a day. You might have a very small afternoon snack but that is more for children as dinner is generally served later than in the US. The snack is just a yogurt or some cookies (something more like shortbread than the type of cookies we have here) and a small drink (my host family gave their children water flavored with fruit syrup which is pretty common). That’s it. You don’t eat all day or at all hours.

    • Anne says:

      That’s very interesting! I find that, depending on what I ate for my meal, I have to have a small snack in between meals or I get really hungry, and then over-eat. Thanks for sharing your observations!

  3. Jami Leigh says:

    This is exactly what my husband struggles with! He still tries to eat as much as when he was in high school lol but without all the physical activity!! Even too much healthy food can be bad for you! Thanks for the tips :)
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  4. Bree says:

    Nice reminder and congrats on the e-book!

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